Recently, there is an amazing report that has revealed that one of the two two men often understands another man if their relationship is broken. The survey was conducted by the UK Vampol organization with questions from 1,000 women, including married women. The results were amazing – about 50% of women admitted that they had already been a backup partner in their minds that they could go to another, it is also called Benning in today’s time.
This survey also states that this backup partner often has an old friend that has previously shown romantic interest. Some women also named the name of a introduction with their ex boyfriend, co-worker or gym. This means that it is not a stranger, but one is a person with an emotional relationship or conversation. These people are regarded as emotionally close, and the person will come to comfort them or provide emotional support to them.
There can be many reasons behind this trend. Some women say that they need an emotional protection in relationships. When there is a difference or emotional distance with the current partner, they give the person to the person they have felt a relationship with. This makes them feel that if their relationship worsening, they will not be completely alone. At the same time, some experts believe that social media and virtual relations have given people more options. Previously, where the idea of maintaining a relationship was now, many people live in the “backup plan” all the time. It is someone else if it doesn’t work.
Is this thinking danger to relationshipe?
This survey raised a serious question whether it is destroying this ‘backup mindset’ faith in relationships? The foundation of a true relationship is based on faith and dedication. If anyone always thinks, ‘If this relationship does not work, there is another’, will he ever be able to invest with his current relationship with all heart? Many psychologists believe that this thought reduces the depth of relationships. It can affect the godly, emotional bond and long-term sangat between companies.